That’s what my life is like," the actress and singer said Selena Gomez has a message for her critics: vulnerability is not shameful. In an impassioned speech at a recent event, the actress and singer,

Speaking a bit more pointedly, she added, “Do not ever let anyone tell you that you are not a good person.” “Screw anyone who tells you you’re a victim. You’re a survivor in my book.” Gomez disclosed that she is not able to carry children in a new interview with Vanity Fair published on Sept. 9.

The “Only Murders in the Building” star called surrogacy and adoption “huge possibilities” due to “medical issues” in an interview earlier this month.